why does the society judge us for being different
I am tired of the society, am tired of the judgmental eyes of the society. What does it want with me and why can’t it just leave me alone to live my life. Am certain am not the only one who feels this way cause my friends too have had some awkward experience where they are judged wrongly by the society.
The first case is probably put best by the statement, “Society is funny. They ask you to be yourself and yet they judge you.” How many itimes have people around you told you that, be yourself, be original, don’t be afraid to be? Then when you follow their advice they are the first on the scene pointing fingers. Just because the people there have always done something in a particular way, doesn’t make it the best way to do it nor does it make them normal, cause if you are acting normal are you being normal or are you just acting?
Society is always trying in some way to grind us down to a single flat surface, always doing its best to keep us in “check”, but if I may be so bold to quote the bible, ‘God created each man unique and no two people are equal in all aspects.’ Why then does society say different? It’s these things that limit the ability we have inside. Ask yourself this question, why is society so afraid of people moving away from the ‘normal’? OK I have to admit that statement also scares me a bit, I really don’t know why i just wrote that, but it’s worth a thought.
Then there are these standards that society has put on people, standards that we have to reach so as to be considered normal. Sorry for the language but that is , you were created to be different, why then do you try so hard to be normal? If we live according to others conditions, does it mean we are living our life or we are living their life?
She needs make-up to cover up because, society taught her who she is, isn’t enough. Am sorry if I sound to direct but that’s the truth. Dear insecure girls everywhere, you’re not ugly, society is ugly . Sincerely, The truth.
Then there is this popular concept about the cycle of life. It goes like, go to school, get a good education, go to college, get a good paying job,get married and guide the next generation in the same way.
Never try to break the cycle. If one is uneducated, he is abnormal. If one is unmarried at 36, she is abnormal.
. A majority of the great men in history never graduated, bills gate, Steve jobs and the list goes on, Einstein was considered slow in learning at a young age yet became one of the greatest minds to date.
Finally, we say society is messed up but we are society, so let the change begin with you, Society exists only as a mental concept;
culled from relationshipsinlife.org