Monthly Archives: June 2014





It was a cold Saturday morning and the micro organisms that clung to the walls of my intestine, due to hunger, made me wake up a bit earlier than usual. Unlike every other Saturday when I just lay in bed lazily all day, I had to get a little bit of courage and leave my ever warm and comforting bed. My roommate was also very hungry but of course, her bed won’t give her a break. So I went all alone to the school cafeteria looking like I just got out of the wilderness after 35 years of struggle.

I bought the food ticket and I was about to buy the food when my phone rang. I was going to pick up and tell whoever it was to call me back but the tone of the voice left me curious. It was an old man’s…

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why men cheat on loyal women

Males cheat on loyal women to boost their ego. A woman can be perfect for him. Beautiful, career minded, own money, cooks, does whatever he wants her to do in bed, loyal, intelligent, educated, faithful and yet, he will still cheat on her with an ugly, kangaroo looking girl every time. But why?
How a male treats a woman is NOT a reflection of HER worth. Nor is it a reflection on anything she LACKS or is not doing. An overly macho, mentally weak, sensitive-minded male knows he does not DESERVE a strong minded woman. In his mind, he thinks one day she will mentally awaken to the realization she deserves better than him & leave him. This is why males cheat on a woman, to have POWER over her. He cheats on her to boost his ego.

Most “males” are more insecure than women. Notice I referred to a “male” and not a “man”, as there is a distinct difference. Many males have VERY low self esteem. You can tell, that’s why he says, “I only fuck with bad bitches”. He is saying this to convince himself, attempting to drown out his insecurities that are on repeat inside of his own mind.

By cheating on a good woman, it makes a weak minded male feel he has POWER over her. It makes him feel he is worth more than her. A male knows if he cheats on a loyal woman, she will care about him more. Yes, initially she will be shocked a man has the audacity to cheat on her, especially with an UGLY woman. No, not merely “physically” ugly, no. The word UGLY describes the particular amount of compassion, sweetness and being genuine and nurturing the woman he cheats with lacks.

A woman whose loyalty is taken for granted will question herself like:
“what is wrong with me?
Am I not I’m pretty enough?
Is my ass not curvy and fat enough for him?
Is my stomach not slim enough for him?
Is it because I won’t let him bring another girl in the bedroom with us?
Is it my smart mouth?
Is it that I’m always “over emotional” like he complains?
What aren’t I doing right?
Should I do more?”

Then she will try to stay with him to PROVE to him she is better than the girl he cheated on her with. To prove to herself she can fight for love and can help him by help changing a bad boy into a good man, fooling herself. This is reverse psychology. A weak minded male just got a Good Woman to mentally submit herself to a mentally immature man, purely by cheating on her. Males use cheating to TRICK a good woman into SETTLING for him. But this mind game many males play cannot and will not work on a Loyal woman who knows her WORTH

Many people argue men cheat, because his woman will not do what his women on the side will, but he would never even consider the option of having women on the side if he deserved her in the first place. Some men are genuinely not ready for a relationship. To force one with him is only creating a relationship death wish. The idea that men are incapable of being monogamous is false.
I enjoy going on dates, flirting, courting and enjoy my single life, but in the back of my mind, I’m looking for a WIFE. I have ZERO interest in having side HOES or “fans”. I don’t need to have sex with every beautiful woman I meet to prove how much of a “man” I am. My loyalty, monogamy, spirituality & mental maturity proves that.
Each woman I meet, I’m looking to see if she is Wife Material. Because I know I am Husband material. My mother raised a future husband, not a hoe. I choose to be celibate while single, because my mother raised me to be a father and not a baby daddy. I live my life this way as proof that loyal men do indeed exist.
I have to admit, I am extremely picky and I know what a want in a woman. I want a woman who is as strong minded as me. I must admit I love a woman with a smart mouth who will speak her mind, yet knows that my masculinity and romantic aggression will always demand her respect, so she never verbally disrespects me. I love a woman who is spiritual. I love a woman who loves to shop & dress her ass of. It makes me want to spoil her with new heels every payday to keep her shoe game on point.

It was written by Ebrahim Aseem,

pretending to love

Have you been in a relationship with someone u have no feelings for? Have you said “i loveyou” to one you dont even like?

I remember ten years ago as a teenager longing for a relationship. I was still in secondary school then.the girls i approached turned me down.
I had no choice but to settle for less.

I had a taste. Iwanted a tall, fair figure 8 lady.the ones i approached claimed to be taken. After a futile search,i noticed one girl who seems to be attracted to me. She was smallissh, skinny
and physically unattractive. I noticed her looking at me with my eagles eyes. One day,she whispered to my ear that she had swept the class for me while i was playing football. That act saved me from severe punnishment. I was happy with her and asked her out .she instantly accepted to be my girl.

I found myself dating someone i neither knew nor liked. She was a perfect description of “unconditional love”.she sat beside me during exam and opened her book so i could copy. She wrote assignments for me and ensured my notes were upto date.All these she did without asking for anything in return.

She was proud of me and told everyone i was dating her. She would hold my hands while walking together and introduce me to the world as her boyfriend.she openly told me i could taste her if i wanted. In as much as i wanted to have a girl, she wasnt sexually appealing. Her chest was as small as a maggi cube. Her ass was flat as iron.she was darker than i . To me , she was “ugly”

i had to pretend to like her due to her favors to me. I had to tell her “i love you” knowing i was lying deep inside.

It has been over ten years since we lost contact. I will never forget her as the girl who loved me while i pretended to . I have dated other girls but none loved me like she did.they all had their demands and expectation

Beauty Is In The Eyes Of The Beholder

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One day, a young guy and a young girl fell in love.

But the guy came from a poor family. The girl’s parents weren’t too happy.


So the young man decided not only to court the girl but to court her parents as well. In time, the parents saw that he was a good man and was worthy of their daughter’s hand.

But there was another problem: The man was a soldier. Soon, war broke out and he was being sent overseas for a year. The week before he left, the man knelt on his knee and asked his lady love, “Will you marry me?” She wiped a tear, said yes, and they were engaged. They agreed that when he got back in one year, they would get married.

But tragedy struck. A few days after he left, the girl had a major vehicular accident. It was a head-on collision.

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main reason why poor gets poorer

Its one thing to be poor and another  thing to be stupid but when one stupidity is found in a poor person, such person is condemned to be poor for life.

Stupidity is when one allows his parents poor background to condemn him to beliving he can never taste wealth.
Such person doesnt see his wealth in his kids. He doesnt belive  investing the little he has on his kids education could brighten his chances of creating a rich family. He is selfish and considers his immediate want first above family needs.

Giving such people money doesnt make them rich. Rather, it makes them more irresponsible. He would rather spend the extra fund on expanding his comfort zone.
He orders more bottle of drinks and patronises more expensive prostitutes. He wont mind buying a jeep to announce his arrival  so his name would be on everyones lips.
Meanwhile, his wont buy mosquito net for his kids. His kids still attend community high school .he wont think of buying land. To him when the extra cash comes, “spend it now before it disappear”

so why do  most poor people get poorer? Its because they act stupidly when extra pay arrives.

The Fake Professor



images-4Isn’t Google the most incredible source of information the world ever could imagine? Nobody has to drag out the Encyclopedia Britannica to find elusive answers. Nobody has to travel to the library to spend a day at the research department. Nobody has to call a friend to ask.

I am filled with wonderment every time I ask Google a question and within seconds, receive the carefully researched, perfect answer. I am in awe of Google’s brilliance. He’s smarter than the winners of TV’s Jeopardy, can out-spell any top spelling bee champion and is even smarter than the GE Science prize winner and Pillsbury bake-off winner combined.

I depend on Mr. Google to help me clarify all sorts of facts, from the dollar amount of the national debt to a tricky word on a New York Times crossword puzzle. Dear Mr. Google always covers my back. What a capacity for knowledge…

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The Stingy Man

the stingyman

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A local United Way office realized that it had never received a donation from one of the town’s most successful businessman. The person in charge of contributions called him to persuade him to contribute.
‘Our research shows that out of a yearly income of at least $1,200,000,
you give not a penny to charity. Wouldn’t you like to give back to the
community in some way?’ The man mulled this over for a moment and
replied, ‘First, did your research also show that my mother is dying
after a long illness, and has medical bills that are several times her
annual income?’ Embarrassed, the United Way rep mumbled, ‘Um…no.’
‘-or that my brother, a disabled veteran from the Gulf war is blind and confined to a wheelchair?’ The stricken United Way rep began to stammer out an apology but was interrupted, ‘-or that my sister’s husband died in a traffic…

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Spyreveals main reason why super eagles lost

The super eagles performance at the First match of the worldcup has left fans disappointed. A source has disclosed reason for their poor performance.

Shortly before the match, five unidentified persons sneaked into their dressing room and adviced them to play badly for their own good. They claimed to be alqueda agents with links to bokoharam and promised to kill each relation of the super eagles after the match. John Mikel Obi tried to dismis their threat but was shown pictures of his relations circulated round nigeria,their and location. They promised to bomb mikel’s village.

Meanwhile,attackers ,Ahmed Musa and ,Victor moses used the worldcup as a means to send a message to the nigerian Goverment.their inability to make their corner reach the target was compared to govt inability to provide basic Amenity to its people.

Victor moses claimed he was not the messiah like issrealine Moses and it wasnt his responsibility to lead the super eagles to Victory.

Emenike promises not to score a goal in 200minutes as protest to 200 missing girls in dont expect a goal against Bosnia

Why i dont love my fiancee

In 130 days I’m getting married, and a friend recently asked me why I love my fiancé. I wanted to share a deeper perspective on Amanda and I’s relationship, so before I answered why I love her, I had to first explain to him the reasons I don’t love my future bride to be.
I came to two conclusions:
First is, I don’t love Amanda for what’s on theoutside. I know. It sounds cheesy, it sounds sappy. This perspective is not a novel idea by any means. How many times have you heard someone say, “I don’t love you for what’s on the outside. I love you for what’s on the inside.” But that brings me to my second conclusion.
I don’t love Amanda for what’s on theinsideeither.
Now don’t get me wrong, there are many things on the insideandoutside that I loveaboutAmanda. Here’s a short list.

1. On the outside, she’s the most beautiful person I’ve ever met.
2. She has soft, almond shaped brown eyes.
3. She has gorgeous, versatile hair that can be really curly sometimes and smooth and straight other times.
4. She’s a beast at make up. She does it in a way that enhances the beautiful qualities that she already has, without being too overbearing.
5. She has a smile that can light up a room and brighten anyone’s day.
6. She values health and fitness and this shows through her wonderful figure and physique.
Guys are visual creatures, and it’s refreshing to know that I have an incredibly beautiful woman that will be my wife one day.
But it doesn’t stop there because on the inside, she’s exponentially more valuable.
7. She loves God more than anything else, and her relationship with Him is what she values most.
8.She is always looking for opportunities to serve others. Last week, I had a long week at school, and when I walked into my room, she had straightened up, she was making my bed, and she greeted me with a really big hug. It doesn’t get better than that.
9. She values the importance of a positive mindset, which encourages myself and others around her during times of trials and difficulties.
10. She is someone with purpose in mind. She doesn’t want to live an ordinary life. She wants to live a life of significance, not for her own recognition but to truly spread the love of Christ and the gospel.
Amanda isawesome. Seriously. I couldn’t have asked for a better teammate.
I love these thingsabouther, but this is notwhyI love her. As I said before, I neither love her for what’s on the outside, nor do I love her for what’s on the inside

I love her because I choose to.
In 130 short days, I will be Amanda’s husband. And at that moment, I will have a big responsibility on my shoulders — to love my wife as Christ loves his church.
Ephesians 5:25 – Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
So I thought about the love Christ has for me and the rest of His church. It’s unconditional on what I have done and it’s unconditional on what I do in the future. When I accept Christ, I’m in his family. Romans 8:38 tells me thatnothing can ever separate me from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate me from God’s love.
So just as Christ loves the church unconditionally, I as a husband will have to love my wive the same.
And let’s be honest. Christ doesn’t love me for what’s on the outside and he doesn’t love me for what’s on the inside either.
Honestly I’m not good enough.
In fact, no one is good. In Luke 18:19,A ruler questioned Jesus, saying, “Good Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?”And Jesus said to him, “Why do you call Me good? No one is good except God alone.”
And so if God doesn’t love me for what’s on the outside, and if I’m no good on the inside, then why doesHeloveme?
Because He chooses to.

It’s not sexy. It’s not flashy. It’s countercultural. But God’s always choosing people. Whether it be Old Testament or New Testament, the Bible is jam packed of people that were chosen by God.
In Isaiah 43, God says“You are my witnesses,…,and my servant whom I have chosen”
In Ephesians 1, I learned He chose me “in Him before the foundation of the world.”
In John 15, Jesus says“You did not choose Me but I chose you.”
So what my love boils down to is not Amanda’s beautiful eyes or that she is incredibly good looking. My love boils down to a choice to pursue a covenant relationship with her and only her. By choosing Amanda, and saying “yes” to her, I’m also saying “no” to everyone else.
My marriage vows won’t say “I’ll love you through sickness and health…as long you keep working out, and stay below this weight….and keep your hair long….and remain gentle and genuine.” In 30 years, Amanda and I will look different, act different, and be different than we are now at the age of 21 and 20 years old.
Things change.But my marriage vows won’t. They’re modeled after the love of Christ, and His love is unconditional

culled from micheal 101 wordpress